Tuesday, 14 January 2014

plank 4 bed = friend for life

plank 4 bed = friend for life                                                 


Time runs fast whenever we are in a happy moment. But the same time runs as slow as it can be when we are in sorrow. Everyone knows it. But the college life is something really different. It is the only recipe of life that contains all ingredients like tension, hard work, luck, love, friendship, fun, craziness etc. If we consider life apart from college any of the above ingredients will be definitely missing. 
            Most of my life until intermediate I used to think that, why would some other people love us just like our parents do or how can I love them just as I love my parents or myself. At that stage I was in total confusion, that doesn’t allowed me to make more friends in inter or in my schooling and that doesn’t mean I don’t have friends, I do have them but what I say is that I was not much clear or shortly I was not loyal in that friendship. But one thing is quite surprising to me that I still have my inter friends who cares for me.  You may now think that do we need to be loyal in friendship or what there to be loyal in friendship. I don’t have perfect explanation to that but my experience on friendship that made me to write this.
              Generally how 2 people can become friends?  Well there are so many situations, so many reasons for that. If I ask some people I can find their answers differently. Some may say we are friends from school itself, we are friends from inter or we are friends from engineering, etc.  Well, these are major places until now we became friends with some others. In the present world the easiest relation that everyone can easily form is friendship.
                                                    For example let us take the first day of joining the college we are quite unknown to our today’s best friends. I find that to be surprising. Doesn’t it? In the similar way we will have many more like this in future too. I am damn sure of that and was eagerly waiting for that. Whatever life gives us there will be strong reason behind it weather good or bad. I learned many things from my life, also from others life. The friendship that started with fight is ever lasting and I strongly believe that. That is main reason still my inter friend is still one of my best friends. At that time I don’t know all these as I was not that matured to think this all.  

Beginning days in Inter:

                                               Actually after joining in inter we are allotted new rooms after some 3 weeks of joining in the third floor of our campus. We were supposed to move to the new room in the break between 5 to 6, which is after 3-5 study hour. I was more excited about new room because when I checked it before it has four windows out of which 2 are at the both sides of the door and another two are back side of the room and there is a bed at window from which the greenery behind our college was clearly visible and I thought if I can get that bed I can have some cool and fresh air every morning and evening. Our college was very next to NH 5 which is from Chennai to Bhubaneswar via Nellore, Guntur, Vijayawada and Visakhapatnam. 
             Our college is situated at the outskirts of the village called Gudavalli. Our college is combined of both the school children and intermediates. It’s actually in ‘U’ shape and it is divided in such a way that it is divided in two half’s and one half for school children and the other for intermediates i.e. for us. And our college name is Raman Bhavan-1, 2. Which produced many IIT toppers and fortunately I was not one of them. Yes I mean it I am really happy not to be part of any IIT’s; I will tell you that later. And the school name is Goutham International School shortly GIS which is quite famous, well I think so.
           The clock struck 5 the co-ordinater said to take break and come back sharp at 6. I thought it would be late if go to old room and pack all my belongings and then moving it may become little late, so I decided to go straight to the new room with my plank and kept it on the bed such that I can get the window bed. When I reached the new room there are some ones belongings already in the room, some are too early than me but luckily they didn’t take the window bed. After placing the plank on the bed I went to old room and packed all my belongings and happily started moving. By that time many of roommates have gone to new room with their entire luggage. Slowly I entered the room and I observed that there are some ones belongings on my bed where I kept my plank. I found my plank missing their then I thought that the person have taken my plank and thrown away and kept his belongings. I was searching for the person who kept all those on my bed. Then I person with innocent looking, wearing high power glasses, in his night pants approached me by having a lot IIT-JEE books in his hand.
                                        Then the fight began, I started to shout at him he tried to explain me but I was in not controllable anger because I thought he had thrown away my plank and occupied my bed. He was trying to say that there is no plank in there. I strongly believed he had taken the plank and thrown away to occupied the bed.
                                             The quarrel was not yet completed but the clock struck 6 and soon PT’s were roaming in the corridors and ordered us to go for next study hours. I was not in the mood to leave but that’s not like engineering whenever we wish we can go to class or can bunk the classes by telling different organization names. PT’s roam with holding a long and strong stick beating on the doors with whistling the whistle which is of high frequency normal ear cannot bear.
                                                   All most spent the full study hour what to do with that stupid fellow who invaded my bed by making different plans what to talk, what to do like that. The study hour completed and I got ready to fight with him. But when I reached the room I found all my belongings were kept on the window side bed and he took another bed. I was surprised a bit but still thinking that he had thrown away my plank. That’s why my angriness is there still on him in my mind. Anyway I was happy to retain my bed and but felt bad to lose my plank.
                                            Our classes start at 6 in the morning and we are supposed to wake up at 5 in the morning. I was the only in the room who wakes up at 6, many others leave room for classes before my wake up.  I go straight to class without bathing and even brushing the teeth. Actually we have break at 7:30 to 8:00 for breakfast all others go breakfast I go for bathing and brushing and if still the time allows I go for breakfast which is done rarely. Almost spent my half of the inter i.e. 1st year with the same time table. Well it went bad in 2nd year that’s another matter.
                                     


                       The next day after the bed & plank incident at 7:30 I was getting ready with my brush for war on my teeth while others are getting ready to attack the mess with their palates. Ours rooms are locked at six and will open at only 12 noon. So I made all my arrangements like brush, towel near door such that I can put them back there. When I came back to my room to take brush I saw one boy with the GIS school uniform trying to push something inside the room from the gap between door and floor.  By approaching it I understood that it was my plank and he is trying to push to room. I reached him and asked,” What are you doing here and how did you get this plank?” He was in little bit fear and in a terrified voice he said,” sorry bhayya, yesterday we shifted from this room to new room and I thought my friend had forgotten his plank so I took this plank with me but when I gave it to him he said that’s not his. That’s why I was replacing it here”. After thinking for some time I understood that when I went to new room to place my plank I saw luggage and I thought it belongs to one of my roommates but it wasn’t, it belongs to school boys.
     


                             Now I totally understood what had really happened, after listening to the boy I understood how foolish I am. Without listening to my roommate I began to scold him I really felt bad for what had happened. And began to think how he can be that much cool even I was scolding for what he hasn’t done.  I want to say him sorry and was waiting for that. In the afternoon at the lunch break I was waiting for him to come to room and such that I can say sorry. He came to room 12:30 and there are no one in the room expect me, he came to room with his millions of tons of books and placed them on his bed and started to go for lunch. I saw him going to lunch and started running back and stopped him and said,” Hey I am really sorry yaar, I was uncontrollable yesterday and please don’t mind “. He just smiled and said, “It’s ok” and started to leave, I followed him and continued the conversation, “I am Chiranjeevi, Chiru shortly. What your name?”, “I am Adithya Sai Suresh, shortly Suresh” he said. Form that day there are only a few days where I have gone to mess without him in whole my intermediate. I have learned many things from him in my 2 yrs of intermediate life. That helped me here in engineering to make good ones as my best friends.
                                    


                                                    Well that’s my inter best friend and me, I had very few best friends in inter but that’s not same here in engineering, I have to say that I have the “best” friends here. Well one thing is pretty clear that friends are the people who will live with us. Where ever we go we will find friends, matter is that new ones at new place that’s it. There are many good people around us but the thing is we also need to be good to them. Be there for the good friends and be the good friend. Well as I said in the beginning the time in happiness runs faster. We have almost completed our engineering and I even remember the day of my joining, it was just like yesterday I joined here. But we completed 3 yrs here and only one more left, enjoy much as you can and never ever forget your friends. And if you are having some problems with your friends adjust with them and help him to change but don’t leave him just as unknowns do. Be there for the good friends and be the good friend
                                             

                                     Here in engineering also I have someone like my friend in inter from whom I learned many things mostly simplicity, and coolness..….  And he well known to all of us, he is ……..
       Well he don’t like publicity, have to take his permission for that. I will inform you after doing that. Bye for now…….

                              Dedicated to one who is trying to be good friend to a good friend… 

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